Friday, March 30, 2007

Question......


What is romance?
What makes a man or woman romantic?

9 comments:

DiAmOnD hawk said...

romance is definitely an individual thing...i think it's doing something out of the norm/ordinary that allows you to be met favorably in the other person's eye...and since ppl are different....and "normal" really is....
like some may think a guy buying flowers and blah blah is romantic... well if im allergic to flowers...it's not romantic for me...

i think romance is a lifesytle as well

abeg im rambling on...it's early...i may come back and modify sef. hope you're well

what i want to know is why YOU are posing the question...did someone do something recently? who what when where how?.....

I CANT BELIEVE IM FIRST O... buki IM TAKING OVERRRRRRRRRRRR

LondonBuki said...

Diamond, I saw this and my Oga came so I had to look busy... Come Monday, I'll be back to take over my 1st spot! Nonsense!

How I wish I could answer this question Uzo... I'm clueless.

azuka said...

I think romance has more to do with the feelings evoked by actions than by certain actions themselves. Spontaneity and real feeling certainly qualify, but then I may be wrong...

Vickii said...

For me, romance is all about thoughtfulness. I'm most touched by the things people do for me when I know they've put a lot of thought into it ... it's such a cliche but true for me.

Favoured Girl said...

Romance to me is my partner studying me and knowing what I want, and doing them. They may not sound romantic in the normal sense. I might just like to know that I'm on his mind during the day, or he surprises me by cooking dinner for me before I get home. Just lovely little gestures really.

chidi said...

when a guy is romantic, he would do all this for me:
1)buy me stuff (it can be anything.its the thoughts that counts)
2) he has to show me that he cares about me really through different ways
3)he must remember my birthday and do something for me, not only remember the date
4) give me cuddles all the time
5)hold me whenever
6)he must not be selfish
7)must be there when i need to talk to him
8)must go out of his way to make me happy

if he does all these, then for me, he qualifies as romantic

Jaycee said...

Romance pierces my heart. Have you ever felt a sharp pain tuggin through ur soul when ordinary words are spoken, but the words don't seem ordinary when they come from ur other half?

That's romance. Romance is experiencing each other's souls...it's much more than flesh. You know why God says we shd love Him with our heart, soul, strength, and our MINDS...He never mentioned "flesh"...romance transcends the physical...

Ooooh...don't even get me started on this topic...lol...

Simply Gorgeous said...

I love your question. Showing that you care on a daily basis, makes one now they are loved. Being there in good times and bad ones is the ultimate love. Also being able to forgive a person when they have wronged you is alos the most spiritual aspect of Love.

Akin Aworan said...

You know, when I figure that out, will get back to you. For the time being, I'm making it up as I go along...