He asked: Describe your dream man
Hmmm my dream man... This is a toughy. I don't care about physical appearance. I really don't. I am more interested in how well we interact (I've learnt that as long as a man is confident and knows how to work with the tools he's given, you really dont care how he looks ;-)).
My dream man would be someone who likes to have fun , is able to think outside the box and be spontaneous, is open-minded enough to at least try something new before condemning it - i.e . eat sushi/go bungee-jumping, and also likes to travel to new places, meet new people. He has to be my equal and more to earn my respect. He has to be ambitious and driven - knows what he wants and how to get it. Someone who also knows how to talk and express himself - so I could take him out to a dinner party and he'd be able to hold his own through discussions about the merits of unicameral governments and whether or not Angelina Jolie is really just a crazy child collector.
My man has to be able to stand up to me and not take any of my crap (cos I would walk all over him if given the opportunity) but at the same time, be able to respect my opinion and my wishes. He should be man enough to not feel affronted if i beat him at certain things (cos I'm hella competitive), and be proud of my achievements. He has to be intuitive enough to sense my moods and know when to give me space .He also has to be very passionate (has to keep up - preferably with an insatiable appetite for me) and be able to think of, or be willing to try new things to spice things up.
Ultimately, he has to be able to make me laugh.
He has to be deep and truly spiritual (he must believe in – and know – God), not shallow or materialistic. He has to have a strong sense of self and a firm confidence in who he is (but not cockiness and a tendency to brag, that’s a turn-off). That self-assurance should come through in his demeanour and the way he presents himself to the world, because I think that’s really attractive. It should also come through in his open-mindedness and respect for others, irrespective of their sex, religion, tribe, race or any other considerations. Bigotry is not acceptable to me.
He needs to be intelligent and interesting to converse with, and he needs to have a really good sense of humour (because I love to laugh). He also needs to be compassionate and kind, the sort of person who cares about the needs of others and isn’t totally caught up in himself. He should also be an honest, real, down-to-earth person. He should be adventurous (hopefully someone who loves to travel and experience new things) and fun-loving, friendly, easygoing and definitely not a nit-picker or a whiner. He should have his own interests and hobbies (outside of work) but should also be open to developing new interests and learning new things. I would like him to be someone who is ambitious and makes big plans for the future, but also lives passionately in the moment and believes in enjoying his everyday life.
A man who uses his brain not his biceps,good sense of humour,has a deep and true understanding what it means to be a man. Tall and sexy. He must truly be interested in me.
My dream man is a man who comes with all his flaws, his mistakes , his achievements, his sense of humor, his confidence, his smile ( I am a sucker for sexy smiles, they just make everything better), his fears, his weaknesses, his goals, his style (I love well dressed guys hummm...), his beliefs, his dreams.... I think personally the number one quality would be his sense of self and appreciation for all things that make him him or make him tick....
My dream man, hmmm.......
I'll talk about the physical first - Big and Toned Backside, Luscious Lips, Tall enough so I have to tilt my face a lot to look him in the eyes, to kiss him, you know what I mean?
Personality - Someone I can trust...
Someone who supports me no matter how crazy my ideas might seem initially, he'll hear me out and will not put me down.
Someone I can watch sports with and he can watch my shows with me - 24 and co.
Someone who understands that I can be feisty sometimes. Who lets me rant and rave and then responds with a oneliner that will put me in my place sharpish! LOL!
Someone who doesn't expect me to always be available, he understands my life and my commitments. There were already people and things in my life that I will not let go of.
Someone who will comfort me in my time of need, give me a big bear hug and tell me everything will be okay...
And it will help if he's also a cutie, who is in very good shape :-)
Christian and God-fearing
Cool but not too laid back
He should smell nice
Attractive to me
Good in bed
Patient and attentive hehehe
Generous - don't need a stingy brat
Hopefully rich cos I'm gonna be rich
Ssomeone who's intelligent, can carry on an intellectual conversation without sounding like bigwords.com, God fearing, personable, someone hardworking, with a JOB, or at least, ambitious, hmm..im not shallow, so i wont touch on looks per say, but at least, presentable...and of at least average height.