tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post298937124367614485..comments2023-10-23T06:21:59.736-07:00Comments on Reflections 2: The Bachelor - Episode 3Uzohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08546598626824830828noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-64184751375990325552007-03-13T01:03:00.000-07:002007-03-13T01:03:00.000-07:00Yay, Snazzy's in the house! I think I agree with m...Yay, Snazzy's in the house! I think I agree with most of your comments. Good job. Naija Dude, you're supposed to be weighing in too, abi? Where are you?<BR/><BR/>Bach3 gets my vote in this round, for leaving a very frank and cool comment in the comments section. Up Bach 3!!Daddy's Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14679564351145843434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-81962789073915915572007-03-12T12:07:00.000-07:002007-03-12T12:07:00.000-07:00Here is the thing about 7's post, if you read it o...Here is the thing about 7's post, if you read it out of context and someone told you it was about planning a weekend between friends, you would have no problem believing it. The only thing that means to me is that she is a "take it slow" kind of person and that could work in general, but I don't know if it would work in this bachelor bubble that Uzo's got going.<BR/><BR/>the mystery women is horny, as if y'all didn't know. She is also more up on her rights than 5, cos where 5 wished, she expected. Though she fell in to the same trap that 4 did. Why would a guy who has just met you be telling you "i love you?" <BR/><BR/>Maybe soul and olawunmi were right and the bachelor should start running. I don't know about y'all but I'm hearing the theme music from fatal attraction.snazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962164181489774786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-75824896258866599622007-03-12T11:54:00.000-07:002007-03-12T11:54:00.000-07:00congratulations 5, despite your common themes of f...congratulations 5, despite your common themes of food, movies and sex, you are actually the only person so far that apparently deserves to be turned on. It seems you are the only one that realizes that it is not only about him, but about both of you.<BR/><BR/>sorry to bug you 6, but when you are planning a weekend with a guy, you really shouldn't tell him about a weekend with another guy, especially when that weekend meant that you are not going to put in as much effort as you would have done previously.snazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962164181489774786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-47383514534258796862007-03-12T11:37:00.000-07:002007-03-12T11:37:00.000-07:002's weekend reads like a Know Your Customer sheet,...2's weekend reads like a Know Your Customer sheet, that a bank gives you before it gives you money. It's very "What ever you like" from coming to america. Everything she wants to do can be sacrificed to his choices. The whole tease thing clearly backfired, cos I don't think she was promising as much as everyone else seemed to think.<BR/><BR/>3 sounds like she is channeling Bree from Desperate Housewives. Sex, housework, church. Now if this was about honesty she passed, but if it was about creativity, not so much.<BR/><BR/>My issue with 4, is that it is at serious comfort stage of the relationship. It's like the complete opposite of 2. You aren't just meeting him, neither have you known him for (days, weeks, months?)snazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962164181489774786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-67216945772693674332007-03-12T11:31:00.000-07:002007-03-12T11:31:00.000-07:00Welcome snazzy.Bach 3Welcome snazzy.<BR/><BR/>Bach 3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-81233834652627333082007-03-12T11:17:00.000-07:002007-03-12T11:17:00.000-07:00aiight generator broke down on sunday, and I was a...aiight generator broke down on sunday, and I was a corpering and had mad work on monday up until now, and uzo's plug ins keep crashing my explorer, but I will persevere and bring you my snap judgments untempered by.. well anything.<BR/><BR/>Now as far as the question goes, a guy asks a girl what they will do on a weekend alone, and the girl is trying to win his affections then talking about sex is practically a given. Now this question could be about which girls were honest enough to admit this, or it could be about how creative they were when they weren't having sex, or both. Anyway cos the comments are getting kinda long, I'ma do what soul did and post a different comment for each response. Hope this doesn't blow up Uzo's mail boxsnazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962164181489774786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-38545560193545444252007-03-12T10:49:00.000-07:002007-03-12T10:49:00.000-07:00Hi people,Really have to break my silence here.@Di...Hi people,<BR/>Really have to break my silence here.<BR/><BR/>@Diamond hawk,<BR/>Mistress material,what does that mean? hmm<BR/>I am supposed to be an ol' boring wife, who only cooks,cleans and bear kids just beacuse Bach is family oriented? Hell no baby.<BR/><BR/>It is ok,if you don't feel me,I feel me and sure the bachelor will feel me. Thanks anyway.<BR/><BR/>@those who have a problem with sex,<BR/>LIVE with it!<BR/><BR/>@Mr.Soul,<BR/>Cool comments,lol at what bubbles,we will make at milk bath?<BR/><BR/>Is there a problem with a man helping with cleaning his own house?<BR/><BR/>Whats wrong with wearing matching colors? but if ofcourse,you are the mystery bach,it is all good,if not it is all good too.<BR/><BR/>@Mystery lady,<BR/>I don't know why but you remind me of Angelina jolie. Luv you darl.<BR/><BR/>@Uzo,<BR/>You have been doing a great job,but I think it is <I>"Ojoro"</I> that Bach 1 got to post her answers later after reading everybody elses answers and adjusting hers.<BR/><BR/>@Snazzy,<BR/>Where are you?<BR/><BR/>@ Other commentors,<BR/>Keep commenting you make it fun,one moment you are saying my stuff is <I>too short,not cool </I>another moment too long.<BR/>But hey I am having fun.<BR/><BR/>@the other bachelorettes,<BR/>You are all cool babes,may the best lady win and you know it is defintely ME!<BR/><BR/>Bach 3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-19406954033054190842007-03-12T10:11:00.000-07:002007-03-12T10:11:00.000-07:00Let me start by apologising if my comments were ta...Let me start by apologising if my comments were taken out of context. At no point was my comment intended to be judgemental in anyway... I don't believe in forcing my beliefs on others ...my comment had to do with consistency and I guess that explains my reason for using John Kerry as an analogy...I would think a person can comment on the bachelorette's consistency or lack thereof ... Once again Uzo it's your blog and I'll respect your rules... to bachelorette 2 if my comment offended you in any way, it wasn't my intention..it was my way of pointing out what I felt was inconsistent....At the end of the day it's all fun.Miguelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-83675306720283965662007-03-12T08:47:00.000-07:002007-03-12T08:47:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-8676254598095221352007-03-12T07:42:00.000-07:002007-03-12T07:42:00.000-07:00To all the bachelorettes..This is just a little no...<B>To all the bachelorettes..<BR/><BR/>This is just a little note to say that my comments are in no way meant to devalue, cheapen or degrade you as women or as human beings.<BR/><BR/>I marvel at how you can very quickly come up with these scenarios with little or no knowledge of the bachelor.<BR/><BR/>You are all working from a blind slate here and it is noted an d appreciated. Without you.. there is no game.<BR/>II am looking forward to reading more of your fantasies on what you would like to do to and with the bachelor and your scenraios.<BR/>Please remember that just because I don't like your scenarios, it doesn't mean the bachelor isn';t sitting in front of his computer screen drooling at the very thought of all of you. (I didn't mean that in an orgy type manner) you guys know what I mean</B>soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-88647821912039178262007-03-12T07:23:00.000-07:002007-03-12T07:23:00.000-07:00Soul - ahn ahn - pick one! You cant vote for them ...Soul - ahn ahn - pick one! You cant vote for them all! <BR/><BR/>(ok technically you can, but you shouldn't)Noni Mosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15219595871722435254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-900716944368249232007-03-12T07:19:00.000-07:002007-03-12T07:19:00.000-07:00This is all very interesting... I think the commen...This is all very interesting... I think the comments are just as interesting as the post was. Well done Uzo for trying to protect your bachelorettes' feelings - I think I would do the same. I really hope they are not too hurt by the comments. I can imagine and understand that some of them might worry that people will form impressions of them based on their answers in this game, a game which is, after all, about fun and fantasy. I think most commenters are also just having fun, I hope the bachelorettes realise that and know that people are not judging them.Daddy's Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14679564351145843434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-9736434701329201252007-03-12T07:08:00.001-07:002007-03-12T07:08:00.001-07:00Mystery ladyOkay.. wow.. thankfully I cannot vote ...<B>Mystery lady</B><BR/><BR/>Okay.. wow.. thankfully I cannot vote for you, because let me just say that right now..<BR/><B>You got me!.</B><BR/><BR/>This scenraio though seems to be one for someone youa lready know and are comfortable with. I still like it. And yes.. there is something so intimate about a couple cooking together, liek when you reach a hand out and he places a tomato in it without even looking at each other...<BR/>And when you are reading a portion of the cooking instructions and he stands behind you real close, peers over your shoulder to see what you are reading... <BR/>when he holds his hand out and you place the salt in it.. automatically. <BR/>there's definitely a 'ying - yang' element here which is great..<BR/>oh and of course there's the being cornered and only breaking away becasue the rice is boiling over.soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-78690000272382821382007-03-12T07:08:00.000-07:002007-03-12T07:08:00.000-07:00Ok I retract my earlier statement - apologies to B...Ok I retract my earlier statement - apologies to Bach 2 in particular. <BR/><BR/>We all have sex and truth be told, a weekend indoors is really all about "sweating it out" ;-) and I'm hardly one to talk about not having sex.<BR/><BR/>However I dont think any of the comments are personal or should be taken to heart. The answers are tongue-in-cheek and the comments should be the same. <BR/><BR/>Everyone have fun. I'm liking everything!Noni Mosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15219595871722435254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-22293499847555913192007-03-12T07:03:00.000-07:002007-03-12T07:03:00.000-07:00Bachelorette 7You win my vote this time around...Y...<B>Bachelorette 7</B><BR/>You win my vote this time around...<BR/>You researched the bachelor from and in someway designed your eekend around the tidbits of info we have received on him.<BR/><BR/>I like this..<BR/>You've got games that require 'hand-eye' co-ordination , you've got console games which an be competitive and you can lose yourself in.<BR/>You've got dancing, talking.. hmm not a hint of sex and I like it.<BR/>It's one of those things where you are not saying it won't happen, but that's not the main point of the 'getaway'. <BR/>I'm starting to warm to you as well numero 7soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-53952081242870720622007-03-12T06:58:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:58:00.000-07:00i certainly dont see it as a personal attack...thi...i certainly dont see it as a personal attack...this is fun jare... but if the bachelorettes are feeling a bit down...then I will hold my opinion...<BR/><BR/>bachelorette 2 abeg pour some wine for uzo too... lol<BR/><BR/>it's all in good fun<BR/>well said NONI...are u bach1???? o ya confess!!!!!DiAmOnD hawkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09877446485994929578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-83179588081801301292007-03-12T06:53:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:53:00.000-07:00Bachelorette 6Haba.. I know tey say the way to a m...<B>Bachelorette 6</B><BR/>Haba.. I know tey say the way to a man's heart is his stomach, but dang which type of food s are you cooking..<BR/>If you feed our bachelor boy too mucha nd he starts sleeping.. noo nooky for you oh and he would probably leave feeling inadequate.. not good..<BR/>But then again.. men eat like bloody vultures.. so this plan might work in your favour.<BR/><BR/>What did confuse me though, was what what else you are buying loadsa supplies for?..<BR/>Adult toys?, you know.. vibrators, plugs, 'man ring', benwa balls, handcuffs, lube, condoms? or plenty of toothpicks for him to pick his teeth. lol.. <BR/><BR/>oh and please never <B>Never</B> mention having been previously stood up when you are trying to attract another man. <BR/>Men are funny animals.. they always want to be witht eh woman who everyone else wants.soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-59451094149636961972007-03-12T06:51:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:51:00.000-07:00LB - why are you trying to hide? we all know which...LB - why are you trying to hide? we all know which one of them you are. <BR/><BR/>Great commentary Soul! Where's Snazzy's?Noni Mosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15219595871722435254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-72745068289870281962007-03-12T06:45:00.001-07:002007-03-12T06:45:00.001-07:00Soul oh! You are FUNNY!!! Please continue.Uzo & No...Soul oh! You are FUNNY!!! Please continue.<BR/><BR/>Uzo & Noni - I was actually going to say something about this (sex) but I didn't want people thinking I was a bachelorette.<BR/><BR/>To the Bachelorettes: You are making this FUN!LondonBukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10677887052316159966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-48031476326663960452007-03-12T06:45:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:45:00.000-07:00Bachelorette 5Nice one.. you actually suggested th...<B>Bachelorette 5</B><BR/><BR/>Nice one.. you actually suggested that you are insatiable in bed..<BR/>You see this is what I was saying when I looked at that avatar and read your very first response<BR/>It's like there's soo much there..<BR/><BR/>anyway, I liked this, But.. you were short on other activities.. just like number four above. <BR/>I like the little tease at the end, cos it's like you left the bachelor wanting for more..soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-89489256211047544222007-03-12T06:40:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:40:00.000-07:00I would ordinarily not intervene and Noni i hear w...I would ordinarily not intervene and Noni i hear what you are saying but i am receiving different vibes. People take this personally and it was never my intention to have feelings hurt and that appears to be what is happening. Comments are great, dont get me wrong but once again with this issue - hmm....Uzohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08546598626824830828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-22281096519504256812007-03-12T06:39:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:39:00.000-07:00Bachelorette 4Oh gosh, yes the bachelorettes are o...<B>Bachelorette 4</B><BR/><BR/>Oh gosh, yes the bachelorettes are opening up. Hallelujah!.<BR/><BR/>Short and too the point, but It would be nice for you to suggest that your funky asses get out of bed for a minute lol. And a lil more different activity, but it's kinda cool..soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-43746381695819419362007-03-12T06:36:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:36:00.000-07:00Bachelorette 3All the hair on your body??. Won't t...<B>Bachelorette 3</B><BR/><BR/>All the hair on your body??. Won't that make you look like a child in the 'adult department'?. hmmm... completely bald. I dunno there's got to be at least a little landing strip.. but you never know Mr.Bachelor might like it.<BR/>I like the fact that you are taking your <B>freak</B> to him.. that's exactly how it should be... Meet hima t the door in nothing but the sexiest lingerie set and a pair of 'fyuck me boots' ahh ahh the bachelorettes are starting to open up!<BR/>okay I can't resist this bit.<BR/><I>"we'll take a long milk bath where we'd get naughty & make bubbles</I>".. erm what type lol.. are you talking about releasing gas? lol.. okay I'm just joking.<BR/><BR/>But dang.. you are putting this man to work on a Saturday.. either you are that confident about your friday night sexcapades or you think he is your husband and you want him to do chores.<BR/>Damn and it started so well.. until the matching colours for church.. what the hell is that for!!. And the 'act like kids + pinching in church'.. WTF!.soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-38736652392875230902007-03-12T06:27:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:27:00.000-07:00Ok I respect your views Uzo but I dont agree wuth ...Ok I respect your views Uzo but I dont agree wuth your point. By asking about their views or commenting about how much sex is involved, I dont see that as necessarily an attack on them personally.<BR/><BR/>We all udnerstand that is a game and no-one is taking it seriously. I'm sure the girls writing this are doing so tongue-in-cheek and writing out wild fantasies or makign up a character in their head. I dont see anythign wrong in Miguel's comment about consistency. I would even go as far as to say - i dont see it as judgemental - it's more questioning. It's not like anyone is saying the bachelorettes are whores or they are all freakydicky, depserate women for doing this. All we are doing is questioning their responses.<BR/><BR/>The fact is by putting up responses and writing "revealing" answers - the bachelorettes are leaving themselves open to comment and reviews. First it was about the appearance, now it's about their answers. I think its justifiable - else you should have disabled commentary from everyone except the bachelor and your nominated reviewers.<BR/><BR/>But again - your blog, your game, your rules.Noni Mosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15219595871722435254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34068008.post-55218747626457972902007-03-12T06:21:00.000-07:002007-03-12T06:21:00.000-07:00Bachelorette 2I think your opening statement was p...<B>Bachelorette 2</B><BR/>I think your opening statement was probably intended as a 'place my cards on the table, I don't know nothing about you', instead it came across as a little bit of a downer.<BR/>You keep stating all these thing you don't know about the bachelor.. it seemed almost apologetic, almost implying that you would not be able to show him a good time.<BR/>But then you lifted things up by your fictious place in the Swiss Alps.<BR/>A lil bit of arrogance (I'm not knocking that, just observing) by the proclamation that Bachelor Boy <B>won't get bored by such great company</B> that is where you set yourself up as a standard.. only the bachelor can decide if your words alluded to you being as interesting as you espouse to be.<BR/>Too much guessing in your responses, How about a little bit more decisive here.. maybe surprise him..<BR/>Remember this is about you making things interesting for him. This is the place where you have plan 1a, plan 1b, plan 1c and plan 1d even before you get to plan 2 and 2a.<BR/><I>The workout session</I> <BR/>It's like you are trying to build up this event, so you can say.. 'ohh look at you guys .. dirty minds'.. I dunno.. a lil bit childish there I think.<BR/><BR/>I think it's nice that you accomodate the fact that the bachelor might like to start his Sunday differently from you, good on you! Not forcing your beliefs down his throat<BR/><BR/>Ahh I think I finally get what's bugging me about this response, the tone.<BR/>The tone is apologetic and a little bit indecisive.<BR/>i have no doubt that you are fun to be around, this post just comes across as if yyou never really make the suggestions on what to do to have fun. So even though you might be the life and soul of a party, you will not be the one to ever suggest having a party.soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06035447940907993185noreply@blogger.com